Yoyo...good to hear that there are some positives in your sitch but until H is 100% sure I would be very cautious. You want to be certain before you move to another country. Believe me...it's no picnic being in another country away from your family and support group, different language...to only end up feeling stuck or stranded if your sitch gets worse again. It's not like your H is asking you to move back into the house ( or a sitch like that )...this is a drastic move, that even in the most solid of marriages would have to be thought out carefully and make sure both partners are okay with it, nevermind children. IMO I would give it more time and maybe a test trial...ie. going to the other country for a holiday or visit first with the kids.
