I don't really have anything to add as far as advice-wise goes but it sounds as though you know what to do. Here's the old cliche' Patience, patience, patience. That's the hardest thing for me to learn . You are smart to take it one day at a time. I predict that once H moves overseas, settles in to his new surroundings and job, and has some alone time he'll have you and there boys there sooner than expected .
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. You are smart to take it one day at a time. I predict that once H moves overseas, settles in to his new surroundings and job, and has some alone time he'll have you and there boys there sooner than expected 
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