There are definately some postives happening in your sitch...especially your H informing you about everything he is doing. Ok--he goes a bit too far when he repeats what his coworker says ( my H has done similar things like tell me gossip on who else's M is falling apart or who's cheating on who...talking to me like a friend and him not realizing the similarities between the sitch's and that I don't want to be reminded ).
Just be careful...it seems H just wants to jump back in where he left off...even the coworkers comment that you're a good wife b/c 'you'll just take him back'. Maybe that would happen easily if H wasn't going to a foreign country. But the fact that he is, and u might not join him until 6 months later...could actually be a good thing?? Defiantely will give him a chance to miss u more, but maybe it will also help him to think more about what he's done. I kinda believe until the WASs really start to grasp why they did what they did, the M cannot go forward in a healthy way.
But I'm glad for u that in a way you have your H 'back'. That is the first step. Now comes the hard work.
