I am one who, like you, got pregnant with my wife early in the relationship. I wasn't expecting a long term relationship with this woman but now we are into our 19th year. Met her in September, pregnant by December, married in February. We struggle with some of the same issues you have in that we are not the kind of people the other was really looking for but we did the "right thing".
Gone the carvings and those who left their mark. Gone the kings and queens, now only the rats hold sway.
