Well I now am almost certain my H has been reading my post.
Though the invite as I took it was short lived and not really a want to talk but a want to get under my skin I answered his questions and asked them back in return.
Got no where with that.
His behavior was odd and elusive to say the least I am leary of going to bed tonight. I am not feeling to safe at the moment. I made such a statement to him and he did not try to assure me otherwise which really adds to my unease.