My daughter is from my first marriage. Which hmm I never replied to a statement you made in the other post about my x
You mentioned you would have stayed with x despite womanizing, and some physical abuse. That was a strong attraction, --that I say wasnt healthy. But he generated some very strong emotions in you.
I would have stayed despite the womanizing yes but not the physical abuse. I did for awhile because of his remorse afterwards I truely believed he was sorry. It took awhile to see he was sick and this was not going to go away. But no it was not attraction it was my belief in marriage at the time that would have made me stay. I am a person with stronge beliefs and though I have walked away from alot of them. It took alot of convincing to do so. Not by people but by life showing me maybe my beliefs were not well founded.
Dont mistake my sincereity for censorship, or I will censor chrissy from my list of names I see on DB BB!
I think we have a deal. We can both agree to be brutally honest with the other. I appreciate your sincerity. I am just use to people looking at me as damaged goods and treating me as such once they start learning about me. And the way that the respond to me afterwards is always different more gentle. It pisses me off. I may be slightly dysfunctional but not damaged. And my past and the abuse it holds is not a crutch to get special treatment from. I have had more success of opening up and letting people see all the scrapes on this BB then I have in whole in the past without being treated as crippled.
and getting support from these girls here.
Yeah the girls are great but so are the guys. Sometimes neither sex really knows how to respond to something I am going through. And if you have not noticed I do not have typical responses most of the time so again at times people cannot relate to what I am saying. But as a whole people here try both male and female.
and stop calling me naive, it irks me alot Tech I did not call You naive either time. And I know it irks you girlish is so non masculine.
You are fun Blackfoot. You slightly amuse me. You remind me of someone I once knew.
That will teach me to stick to what I know.
You learn more by venturing into the unknown
b] So much I havent talked about yet. Soon.
A cliff hanging exit. How Tvish of you! lol
Now I have a question for you.
Your wife how much contact do you still have with her at this time? Just wondering you state you still love her. But as long as the rogue is still breathing will never chance another go at it. I understand this, But what if in the 11th hour she sees her love for you and is willing to end all contact with him to try again. Is there anyway she can convince you to think over the possibility?
