Quote: Okay here I am a million miles away in thought and my H is getting some emotional charge from our snuggle how? I was as good as snuggling a pillow I was not even there in mind or spirit I had ran off to wonder what land in my head and he was feeling connected?
I have been the H in that position and I can tell she is a milion miles away. Sucks big time after I do what I can to reel her into here and now land. For a guy to have his W's mind a million miles away while trying to ML, whel it becomes sex and ML is something different.
Do it enough and a guys mind starts to wander, the M becomes different, colder.