Quote: And when it was it was sinful aspects of masturbation,premarital sex, and self enjoyment. Sex was a something only married couples did and only for reproduction purposes not enjoyment deal. So even if I was being a bad Catholic and having pre marital sex I was being a good Catholic for not enjoying it and I was never going to go blind lol.
The church does not forbid sex for enjoyment between Married couples. What she asks you to do is to leave open the possibility of creating life, which means that sex shouldn't be contracepted. Unfortunately, this is not explained well to Catholics and there is a heckuva lot of misinformation out there. If you can open your mind to it, I'd recommend reading Christopher West's good news about sex. It is a layman's explanation of John Paul's theology of the body. Every Catholic owes it to themselves to read it. It also makes it a lot clearer why the Church considers MB a sin, but then so is not submitting to your spouse.
