One having to overcome my Catholic upbringing and moral views that were imposed on me do to this. From one of your previous post it sounds like you have had number of partners. You had sex... but werent allowed to enjoy it?
Yes whore that I am I have had a number of partners I recall the number 7 but question a number 8. Fuzzy on that one do to to much alcohol and maybe a little want not to remember added in.(not including the not my choice's)
In four possibly five of those experiences no it was not about me and my enjoyment even in a slight round about way. All about the other person. The remainder. In the first it was all a learning experience type thing. For both of us in our first go around as a couple. Satisfaction and accomplishment of it was all up in the air. In later in life rounds as a couple. My overly cocky ex was more of a challenge as to prove to him I could satisfy his every need. I never really even took consideration of my own needs.
In the second being my ex husband ah it was all different. My ex was a womanizing azzhole who knew how to have sex. And was hung like a horse to boot. He felt you should experience and try everything in life at least once. We had a great sex life very erotic and spicey. After he convinced me to open up to the whole experience. . We had sex up until the day he got on a plane to leave to go back to England. We just had a terrible marriage. He was very physically vilolent had that have not been in the mix I think I would have easily over looked the womanizing and stayed with in the relationship. But I could not demean myself or risk my childs welfare to live within my belief of marriage and my vows by enduring his abuse. That was a long painful decision for me to make I had to give up alot of my beliefs to take that step.
Then there is my H.
When I refer to using my sexuality or sensuality against others as in a weapon it does not mean I have always went full stream ahead. There is a stopping point.
And almost all references to a past relationship go back to sexual partner number one in my life. I know it can get confusing
Now the Catholic upbringing and beliefs hmmm yeah I never said I was a good Catholic lol. No really being raised in a Catholic household. Sex was not talked about. And when it was it was sinful aspects of masturbation,premarital sex, and self enjoyment. Sex was a something only married couples did and only for reproduction purposes not enjoyment deal. So even if I was being a bad Catholic and having pre marital sex I was being a good Catholic for not enjoying it and I was never going to go blind lol. But in the here and now I have in essence walked away from the Catholic Church. I believe in God and even if a person could prove to me he does not exist I would refuse to listen to it. I have only walked away from the church and its self imposed benifical beliefs not religion in itself. I believe in the 10 commandments and try to live by them. And I have taught my children God knows what you do and why you do it from that he determines your worth not by if you go confess to it to a preist or say 100 Hail Mary's. He knows from within you if you have done wrong with ill intent or with good intent since he dwells within you. And he knows how sorry you are or if you are just mimicking the words for others sake without you ever saying a word. Okay enough on that lol. Sometimes I sprew forth to much info.
Im guessing it is the mental stim your get from knowing of his climax that 'moves you along quicker'
Can not argue that not that I want to. Makes good sense.
Keep experimenting.. you are married... no moral excuses left
No just a non imaginative partner.
but they arent multiple O's, he still has a refractory period. Sorry, just being technical.
Okay just a tech question here. So even though he does not go completely limp between round one and two when it is me focus time it is not a multiple orgasm ? There have been times when me focus is not required and the only pause is him catching his breath. And on the thrids I think the blood has just started to congeal in this part of his body is cause for that. lol I am joking.
there are also a couple of lubes out that feel warm when rubbed on the body. KY is one, its at the drugstore.
The drugstore how insulting! Why would I go to a drug store when I own a sex toy website you silly man.
