Blackfoot,

Thanks for the response.

Sorta lost on the nuggets you were showing the guys. Unless you were pointing to the fact it should be about him not me.
I think you are one person who see's and agrees that GAL is important aspect in a relationshp

Now on to the good parts.

Thank you for answering the question regaurding my sexual responses and for affirming that they are not on the line of abnormal.
As to realizing what interested me and the length of time needed to discover this. Well I can attribute a few known factors to this. One having to overcome my Catholic upbringing and moral views that were imposed on me do to this. Secondly having a H that was sexually confined himself. He had never had alot of sexual experiences prior to our relationship and by nature is not adventurous so not a great mix for experimenting with ones sexual nature.
Couple that with the fact in my first marriage orgasm did happen durring IC but sex there was majorly different.

I really liked your respones to this
And oddly enough usually only after the warmth of my H's orgasm.
I have often wondered if the erotic feeling that comes from this is the same basis that makes people apt to dapple in golden showers though in truth I may wonder but the idea of being pee'd on or in is not one that I will actively pursue due to the pure uckkk of the situation lol.

now let me get this straight. your H climaxs... then you do... then you have IC again? your H is DEFINITELY HD and DEFINITELY attracted to YOU.

Yes my H is prone to mutliple orgasms. My H is capable of not one but two within a short period of time 90% of the time and a third about 30% of the time. Though the third is hard work for him to achieve The erection is not problematic but the orgasm itself is like when you feel like when you have a kidney infection and feel like you need to pee really bad yet have to strain for a trickle.
And since my H does have multiple my orgasms and the time it takes gives him the needed down time which is very short for him to be fully erect and ready to go again.

why dont you have your H bring you to climax before IC
He does try but my climax again is usually something that comes much easier after he dispells the warmth of his orgasm on my clit. The warmth itself that comes from it moves me along alot quicker. Hence my thoughts towards the golden showers lol.

I know ... you arent a car. Guy analogy.
Well since you are a guy I guess we can let this analogy slide