Chrissy, I know that realizing your own sexuality may seem like it is an issue that will benefit your H, and most certainly it will, but it's more about you and what you need than fulfilling his needs. When you get to a point where you can see that this is something for you and not anyone else, it will be easier for you. I know that it's impossible to imagine experiencing things differently than you do now, but it is absolutely possible. Just keep reading and keep plugging, you'll get there.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"