Just got home from 6 days with my family in Ohio. H is now telling me how terrible I treated him. But will not tell me how I treated him terrible. I did tell him he knew I was there to be with my family and visit with them. Need some advice on how to deal with this calmly. I see H every day of the year I see my family at most 15 days out of the year. This is the first time in a year I have seen them. I do not know how to make H understand that it is all about my family in the short time I get to see them not him. Why he cannot just realize this is beyond me.It seems like it should be common sense. arrgh I feel the under current building for a major war to break out and I would like to avoid it. But I am not sure how to and still stand my ground and not be pushed around. Any thoughts? Gotta a lot of threads to catch up on and housework to do lol Hope you all had a great week.
