Lillie, I was only trying to get a point across that what is normal for one person is not necessarely normal for another. I have to agree that I think once or twice a year is not normal for anyone, but then again if thats all that person thinks/acts on desires of sex, then maybe it is normal for that person. Maybe it has become normal for that person over the years. I think the whole thing here is "desire." I "desire" ML, so therefore I think about it. I'm in the same boat as most others here, I want a satisfying SL with my spouse, and there have been times where I have just given up.
