Good plan. I tried that approach years ago. Trying to convince someone that they are "abnormal" doesn't seem to be a very effective motivational tool (at least it wasn't in my case). I dropped the "frigid" bomb on her during our argument after our 5th wedding anniversary didn't result in any sex, and have regretted it since - even if it feels true. Labeling & name-calling are not useful tools in motivating change - but nothing else seems to be working either.
