There’s a big difference between *once a day-once a week* AND “once a year.* I know we’re not supposed to “label,” but wanting sex only once or twice a year is not “normal” healthy behavior. You might have two people who are happy with twice a year, so there will be no conflict, or you might have someone who has chosen not to engage in sexual behavior for religious or disciplinary reasons, but no one can convince me that it is normal behavior to think about sex or want it only a few times a year. Eating, laughing, crying—these are normal behaviors. It’s not normal or healthy not to eat, not to laugh, not to cry. I know that’s not PC, but that’s the way I feel.
