OG_Lou:

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Having sex and ML is so much a salve to the emotions, for me, that going without almost becomes a medical issue (anxiety, frustration, dificulty staying on task, depression).



This is why Dr. Laura says that a man's emoptions are controlled by the woman. People laugh at this, but lack of a decent sex life will cause all kinds of emotional problems for the man (and some women as well). Part of the problem is that there are so many chemical reactions that take place ONLY through and/or affection. The LD expects us to take care of this ourselves, when in reality, it requires physical contact between two people to solve the issue. I have always wondered why LD's don't want the chemical rush they will get from touching? I think the problem is that their bodies don't work they way they should, and therefore, they don't miss the chemical rushes that HD's crave. The HD unfortunately DOES know what they are missing, and it makes life truely suck.