Oh, no! Not going through that again! I actually posted a LONG history about it (which you responded to) about 8 months ago. Here's the link: http://www.divorcebusting.com/ubbthreads/showflat.php?Cat=&Number=816777&page=&view=&sb=5&o=&fpart=all&vc=1 I changed Internet providers, and couldn't retrieve my old login info, so I created a new ID. Still me though, still haven't had sex since Dec. 2003 (although I said 2.5 years in this posting, I guess it's only 1.5 since Dec. 2003 - seems like it's an eternity when you're not having sex, doesn't it? ). Still on shaky ground relationship-wise. I did go to the MC 4-5 times, but stopped because they kept screwing up the billing for it, and the W wasn't interested in going.
Yesterday was my birthday, and we went out to a nice dinner, came home & had some cake. I knew better than to even ask about sex. While I was blowing out the candles, W commented that I needed to "make a different wish". Seemed like a pretty clear indication not to pursue the issue.
Her health has been troublesome lately, which hasn't helped the situation at all, and she's taken a new job that demands a lot more from her. So at present, I'm not very hopeful about the situation improving - which I guess was why I asked how some other HDHs handle going without.
). Still on shaky ground relationship-wise. I did go to the MC 4-5 times, but stopped because they kept screwing up the billing for it, and the W wasn't interested in going.
