Sorry to see you have that problem too and so long between sexual encounters is a bummer.
Please fill us in on your histort from dating to now. What is your W's main objection and other issues. They need to be addressed first. The more information you post, the more help you will recieve.
Most people deal with no sex by confronting the issue in a friendly but business like manner. sometimes talking improves the SL and sometimes it takes leaving for a spouse to wake up.
