I've never posted on your thread, but I check on it and on your responses to others. You have been through so much and give wonderful advice.
I'm sorry you're on bedrest. As someone else said, it sounds like heaven till you do it. I was so tired with my D9 that I kept thinking "If only I could sleep all day and not work." And then I went on bedrest for 6 weeks! Not so great, actually. But at least it's for a good reason; I mean you're not sick with an awful flu or anything.
How wonderful that H actually said he was glad you didn't diovorce him! What a lovely payoff for all your hard work!
Sage, I want to ask for you advice. How do I know if the really tiny babysteps I see my H taking are b/c he really cares about me and is drawing closer, or b/c he feels guilty? I am seeing a little bit of progress, but someone just posted on my thread that he thinks a lot of WAS do nice stuff out of guilt, which I tend to agree with. At least, in my case. So, how do I know if I'm not getting my hopes up for nothing? If you have any ideas, I'd appreciate hearing them.
All the best, Nicola
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