Thanks so much for the kind posts. They really mean a lot to me.
KML and Martha, ah, yes, I needed reminding that h is scared, too. I think I was just so taken aback at how irked he seemed with me that it bummed me out big time! (Didn't help that it reminded me of dday, either). I do think that he was overwhelmed with the fact that I was overwhelmed...
WCW and amd, I TOTALLY agree with you that h needs a break, too. When I posted sat. night he was out at a friend's house...the first time he's gone out socially since this all happened. I've been encouraging him to go out but I think part of the problem is that h likes to relax AT HOME, with the TV on, in his recliner. I think the fact that I'm here all the time now us cuttung into his relaxation/alone time...and he had a fair amount of it before this all happened. He started school again today so he'll be getting out of the house, at least. I've tried to be very good about letting him relax as much as possible.
Luckily, we have had quite a bit of help...mostly in the food department. We have a freezer full of home made stuff from my dad and MIL downstairs. AWESOME. Now we just need to get better about asking for visitors for me or even more importantly, folks to do simple errands, etc.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
