Bedrest sounds like heaven! until you have to do it. Takes all the fun out of it then. Your H sounds like he's working hard to take care of everything, and that's not easy on him either. Does he get any outside support to take a night off? I know how hard it is for you, I also know how hard it is to be on the opposite side and taking care of everything. Just a thought. 28 weeks, yeah!
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.