Quote: Ultimately, h's commitment to fidelity and our m is up to him." OTOH, that's scary stuff but OTOH, it's just fundamentally TRUE and somewhat of a relief. So much of my "negative fantasy" life revolves around my trying to control a situation that is out of my control (except in my HEAD!). Reminding myself to focus on what I can control helps a great deal.
This reminds me of a lesson I learned a long time ago, which still rings true.
Trust, much like love, is often a choice we make. I know that I make a conscious decision every day to trust others, even and especially SO. And that choice is often shown through actions, acting "as if".
