Sage, I know you are busy and about to be busier!! But I feel like our sitch are so similar, only I am about a year and half behind you and your H!! I was wondering when those thoughts or "anxieties" about H and OW passed. Its been almost 2 years since "the bomb" (in March), but OW has been out of our life since last Sept. The thing that stinks with our situation is that H is friens with OW's family and the ones that he is closet to, dont know about the affair. Sooooooooooo...we find ourselves getting together with OW's sister and her fiance and now being invited to their wedding, which I hear will be a "small" wedding, meaning wont be a lot of other people for us to hang out with...and OW will be there....BLECH! So, because of this, I am feeling very insecure, and its nothing my H is doing, its just a lot of things bring back bad memories and then I seem to "dream up" bad things happening. Is this something you went through and how did you deal with it?
