Congrats Sage!! I am so happy for you!!! I so want to be you right now!!!
So, I have a question...I have read all your posts from the beginning, but it was a long time ago. Before the affair, did you and your H talk about having kids? Did he want them? How did you decide to have them how and was it because you finally felt safe enough in your marriage that you could bring kids into the mix??
Reason I am asking is, when H and I first got married, we talked about kids, then when EA happened, H was adament about NOT having kids. Now, affair has been over for oaver a year, and we are moving along pretty well. I have brought up subject of kids a couple times (we had both been drinking both times) and H was still saying he didnt want them. Do you think its because he is still afraid of what could happen with us??
