I agree that 35 is too young and there is stuff going on inside his head about the A. I do believe that it is over but wonder how much he thinks about it. I know that my kids sometimes mention OW because she was our Nanny. They are young and do not really know what happened. I change the subject quickly but it doesn't matter, the mention of her name surely sparks a memory. Certain songs remind me of last summer and I'm sure they remind H too. I know communication is key and we talk more than we have in a while but the touchy stuff is still hard. My H is like a clam. We used to share intimate conversations and it's really hard to do this now. I also agree with you about the resentments. In one of our ugly conversations last year, H said that eventually you resent and the resentment turns to hate. I know he was hurt by me in many ways and the wall is up and it's strong. Thanks for the advice.
