Baaabs: 35 is, IMO, too young for age to be playing a part in his drive. It is not too young for health issues to be playing a part, and I include the taking of certain medications that can affect a man's libido in those "health issues."
Sounds more to me like he's got something going on in his head that's affecting his drive. HP is right; it could be related to the EA. I don't have the time right now to review your postings, but were there multiple times where you turned him down, or perhaps didn't touch him for days? I know that this has affected my drive. He could be filled with resentment.
