We are here for you to vent and cry; a great place to do so. Helped us all survive.
As Hope said, maybe if we knew we were in trouble, we could have done all the right things to save our M, but we did not.
Now we have to save ourselves and our sanity. I do think having a DB attitude has allowed many of us to maintain positive contact with XS. Will this someday lead them back to us? Probably not. But if we are hostile and angry and negative we can guarantee the results and in all honesty, what good does it do to be negative to the person we love and want to be with?
But right now, it is about your survival and getting through each day.
And stop by whenever to vent, cry, yell, whatever.
