"Going Dark" - 101

[xalelle]

I am hoping for great things out of your date!!! Even if it yields pos baby steps it is moving in the right direction. COngrats to you and enjoy the benefit of all your hard work.

Thanks. I will be happy with no real "steps" as long as we get to spend a little time together with no "incedents". It is what we need right now, just time to get re-aquainted with each other, and remember that we really do enjoy each others company, as long as we arent fighting or ignoring each other!

As my kids say always keep a smile on your face as it makes others wonder what you have been up to!

Ok, too wierd. This is one of my W's favorite sayings!

Is so crazy how from day to day can be so pos to so neg and back again. What a roller-coaster ride we are on!

And what I find most frustrating is sometimes I create my own downs. Trying to work on it - let the positives pull me up and use the negatives to learn and pull myself up with the learning. Not easy, but it can be done!