Me too - my H is the same- lukewarm at times when I know that other men would be jumping at the opportunity. And though it would be nice to have an HD, they sometimes are enthusiastic about EVERYBODY - not just the one they're with. MrH sounds like he is devoted to you. If he is, then this can be fixed. I wish I could tell you the magic solution. In the meantime, hugs to you.
Hang in there. Do something for yourself - go out with friends, get your nails done, get a new haircut. Pamper yourself for a little bit. It sounds like you run around with the kids all the time and never do anything for you. Forget your troubles for a little while - you deserve it.
