As someone who hasn't seen a spark in a long time, I sympathize with you.

Let him bring the heat for once. I don't think it's bad to withdraw. You need to take care of yourself for a change, and not always be in that relationship driver seat. It's funny that you mentioned Corri, because that was who I was thinking about when I read your message.

Hugs to you, sweet lady, from across the State. (Will this heat ever end?) Things will get better...won't they?

Hairdog