HP, the last time I checked in on you, I thought things were going so well. Is it possible that you've gotten yourself into the mindset that things are a certain way. So much so that you can't see all the positives?

I see a man looking back on pleasant memories, happy with how his life is. How many men out there can say they are HAPPY with their wives and families. Most of the guys here would DIE to have a wife like you. Even having sex just once each week and they would be in heaven.

I know a guy who swears that it's been 8 YEARS since he and his wife had sex. Can you imagine HP? All it will take is seeing that little spark and things will all turn around. Blame it on the stars and their misallignment if you want. I have been having a pity party here and am totally missing all of the positives. Take a breath and let up on the pressure a bit. He sounds like a wonderful, loyal, spiritual guy. They don't make 'em like that anymore.


Each experience in life has formed me, become part of me, made me stronger.