Yeah Lil, I would have been very hurt by it had he not proceeded to rip on himself for a good 5 minutes. He is very good--even better than I am, lol--at pointing out his flaws.

He described himself as a person who has to dig a hole in a flowerpot to plant a flower. But instead of doing that, he ends up digging a hole big enough to be a foundation hole for a new house. But along the way he gets tired and pissy and frustrated with how much work it is, but never stops to think, Hey! All I needed to do was plant a tiny little flower..why IS this hole so big?

I thought that was a good description of him.

However, I told him at the end of this diatribe that I loved his insights into himself but at this point I need a little less talk and a lot more action! He thought that was funny.