Quote: How do you continue if you believe your H is acting more out of pity?
This is very hard. I have a hard time with just this because my W gives little things - hugs, lets me kiss her cheek. But I often wonder if it is just to get me to leave quickly without tears. I know she still cares about me, even continues to say she "loves me very much" so I know she dosnt "want" to hurt me. What she dosnt understand is hiding the truth and lying to me hurts more than anything that could happen. She has never done this before. I am prepared to survive anything including an A and still know our M could be saved, but honesty will have to come first.
I am sorry you are having a down day - have lots of those myself. Today is going to be rough, We have an appointment we must go to together today, and it has potential to bring up a lot of stuff, good and/or bad. Then she is off for the weekend with her friends. It is easier during the week - she calls me at least once a day, but when she goes away she does not. Probably with OG. So I try to tough up and be strong for my kids. It is hard. Right now I am missing her so much, it is hard to focus on getting me better. And having the kids makes it even harder - she is the emotional part of our M, so lots of things with the kids just feels like something is missing.
Hang in there. Try to find the strength to go to the game.
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