I've often wondered how to go about re-masculating H. If you ever figure it out let me know. I do suspect that when the H is the LD having the W point out that she isn't sexually satisfied is an ego-damaging experience that it is't if the the LD person is a woman. Go ahead folks - flame away but I think that due to societal expectations the impact is not the same. Likewise, when the W is the HD we often feel like a "b@ll buster" or a "slut." Anyways HP, you could always try to really hokey stuff like in "Light His Fire" by Ellen Kreidman where you call him "tarzan" and stuff.
Karen
I once bought the H a subscription to a "gentleman's magazine" (the one with the bunnies) to get his mindset in the rigght direction. He cancelled it after 2 years - I think he was bored with it (?!) It worked for a little while...
