Well, HD, these are not feminist type people. I am MUCH more a feminist than all of them put together. They are very much the old fashioned He better buy me roses and a big rock for my finger and hold the door and, in short, treat me like a princess and in return I might sleep with him, it depends on how the kids are doing. LOL
Honestly, it's not about feminist or masculinist (I just made that up, though no doubt some idiot has already coined it) or even enlightenment. It's about a person asking you for something and you do it out of love. Even if ya think it's stupid, you just do it.
It took me a loooong time to come to this conclusion and boy does my life run smoother now. I used to think that he should kiss my arse and be happy for the opportunity, but now I really don't think that. Plus, I've totally lost my leverage as I above noted.
