x, How do you continue if you believe your H is acting more out of pity? Heard H tell friend that OW was with her kids. I guess validating that H was with me and our kids. Is rather ironic that the friend is having marriage problems but theirs is due to having relatives children live with them. Hearing my H give friend advice that I wish he would be giving himself was tough. Am to go with H to S8's baseball games today at 8am and thinking not and go myself. confidence level is low today. Tough thinking about spending whole day with H and then H brings us home to go out with OW. Doesn't make for a positive day. crushed