Alright, so the little fella needed persuading. I wasn't dwelling on it, I just thought it was weird. Here he suggested we ML, and then couldn't get aroused. I suppose I've always known that his arousal isn't present when we start, sometimes, but there has never been this much physical evidence to back that up.
I could even learn to enjoy this and really use that time period to do some interesting things to get his engine going. Right now, he initiates and wants to start ML right away. He has come to dislike foreplay.
Never used to be like that.
There are so many things that I've "ruined" by insisting on fixing the SSM.
Maybe I've emasculated him and I need to remasculate him. Who knows!
