Awesome! I learn so much from your posts. My H has so many behaviors to demonstrate his "love" that are like your H's and I just don't recognize them that way. I have to stop to actually remind myself that when H stays up until midnight finishing the last laundry that went in he doesn't do it to ignore me, to keep busy or because he wants to be up late. He does it so I don't wind up having to.
I also think I missed my "cue" last night. H was rubbing my back when we got into bed and said something about why I had on pj's when it is summer. My brain was on some other planet. I think I was supposed to have my "H communicator on to unscramble the H-eze." What that really probaly meant was "get naked." I think I'll forget the pj's tonight and see what happens.
How often do we miss our cues? How often do we just not "get it?"
