I agree - but my W is SUPER good at not having any "signs" - which is why I just assume no. Better for my PMA anyway!
Just make sure when his phone rings you couldnt see it anyway - then he dosnt have to hide it, and you will have less to think about. For now make it easier for it to not be out in the open so it dosnt cause you undue stress.
I am assuming that you want to restore/repair your R even though you know about OW, correct? If so, the only thing you can do is completely let go of any thoughts of OW and keep reading here about A's that end. They almost always do.
To me you are in an enviable position - you know for sure about OW, and I think you have indicated that H does not deny it. In my case there is lots of circumstantial evidence, but W vehemently denys, says he is just friend. So I have to just accept that. Makes it more painfull thinking my W could be being dishonest with me, something she has never done in our M. And very unlike her.
Remember you can do nothing about OW, you cannot cause it to end. Only 2 things can end it: 1 - it burns out (usually does) 2 - H decides to work on M and ends it himeself. All you can do is keep DBing and be what he wants to return to when it does end. And it will.
Hang in there.
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