Then I suggest having that bowl of ice cream sitting right on your naked body! He can have his ice cream, you can chat for a while and then get down to business. OR....you can go with the messier option of wearing the ice cream.
In any case, your H is easier in this area than mine whereas mine will stay up late for sex but complain about being tired the next day. The similarity is that as long as the W's are doing the initiating then it is fine.
