Let us know how it goes HP. My H would not do well with this kind of plan. He would have his evening all mentally lined up: shower, followed by relaxing in front of tv, followed by checking email before turning in. Anything that interrupted this process is deemed "not good." If I take a shower in the evening and H wanders in to the bathroom he might say "hey sexy" but he WOULD NEVER join me in there or anything of that nature for fear of infringing on my time. Never mind that I have begged to have my time infringed upon. I am often fascinated by the different things that work in the different couples here.