Honey, my point was that you need three or four times a week to feel SATIATED. Sure you can be "happy" with less, especially as long as he seems to be making an effort. But how lovely it would be to feel filled most of the time without having to fight for it.
I was going back to what you said here
Quote: I explained that the first day of sex, it takes the edge off. I feel a little better but am ready for the next day. The next day, I feel better but still pretty randy. The third day I'm starting to really feel physically sated and by the fourth day I'm totally bushed and ready for a break on Day 5.
As for his being horny and hard but choosing sleep... is that more of discipline/denial of the body stuff? Catholics get points for denying the needs/urges of the body.
As for bf being a 7, you've got me thinking... I'm going to look into that. He might be an 8 with a strong 7 wing. Anger is in his core and that's the primary issue of the 8. He hasn't taken the test, but we've gone over the characteristics, and many 7 things fit him. But he may not be into pleasure enough to be a true 7.
