Quote: How do I tell her what I am looking for when I have a hard time explaining it to you folks who do get it?
Yeah, GGB, I have the same problem. I’ve tried repeatedly to explain to W what I need and what it means to me – but I can’t seem to get it to come out right. Like so many of the LD spouses discussed here, she tends to hear that I just want more sex. But in all honesty, I have to admit that I have a hard time articulating what it is that I really want. I know what it is, and you do too, but from her POV, it’s just more sex. I get bogged down when I try to explain all that’s tied up with the sex, but it still seems that all she gets is a simple, “more sex”.
