Honey, regarding the exchange you and I had on your Anger Management thread...

I posted on that thread
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honey wrote
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Yes he was sexually aggressive. Up to and until he started getting super involved with church. Then he mentally checked out of our marriage and his desire went with it.


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[Lil wrote]I have this picture in my mind of you and H (before you were married) sitting on the sofa watching TV or something and you waiting for him to make a move and wanting him to but he never would, so you did. Does that sound like you, or am I thinking of someone else?



I was rereading some of my posts from when I first joined the board back in September of last year, and I came across the post of yours that I was thinking of. It's from 10/28/04
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This morning he wrote me an email that said he is not sexually aggressive. He reminded me that on our second date, he was too shy to even sit next to me. We were at his house and we were sitting on separate sofas! He said, If I was that much of a lameass then why would you think it would be different now? I am the same person! I responded that I am certain that he WANTED to sit next to me, but was too shy/awkward to do it.

Here's the link to that thread October thread

When my bf and I went out the very first time, we spent five hours talking. When we parted, I hugged him, and I remember that the hug was very lukewarm given the depth of the conversation we had been having. I made a mental note of it.