That is an extremely familiar scenario to me. HP - correct me if I'm wrong. If H starts with the light carressing it usually is initatiation but often the "gotta check this off the list" kinda initiation. I usually respond with an appreciative sigh/light moan and proceed to touch back in kind. If I want it to carry forward though I have to take it to the next level e.g. more directed, specific touch, a few kisses etc... If I just did the light touch thing back it would likely end there. Sound familiar?
I feel ya girl. I agree that you are going to have to speak to H.
