"Going Dark" - 101

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The most important aspect of the LRT/going dark...is to stop behaviors that are considered pursuing:

calling, emailing, writing, initiating affection.

This does not mean cold and angry.

This means being scarce, pulling back so they have to miss you. And when they DO initiate.....make them work a little. (Don't tell them any of this).

Don't be easy or boring.
Don't tell them where you will be unless it's critical to do so (it usually is not).


The point is .... they should have to wonder if you are really still interested.


Enjoy your life. Really get involved in your own life.


You are both in this position. Keep posting here, so we can help you monitor your results and keep you solution oriented.