Thanks Phoenix, you are right about watching & learning.
I spoke with her again yesterday. About some medical forms.
She sounded very tired & is working 9 days straight.
I tried to lighten it up a little. Asked about her dad & work.
Told her I wanted drop off a Valentines card for my "freind", but that it probably wasn't a good idea. She said "Probably not but it was a very nice thought, buy a rose for someone else & say it was from me".
Told her not to work so hard, she was going to burn out. She told me not to work so hard and to take care.
I have been taking notes on our calls & the last 3 contacts have beeb pretty good. She seems to be moving on but I don't think she is as happy where she is as she thought she would be.
It seems maybe I can be a little grey, let her make contacts or if I make sporadic contact it is ok.
Thanks for the perspective. It always helps to have someone else look at things & give an objective response.
