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[Burgbud]

If that's the case, the time limit idea isn't going to do the trick.

I dunno; it might. Maybe he can handle her reaction for an hour a week if in return he gets 167 peaceful hours. One of MDW's key points is Try Something Different. Seems like it's worth a shot, if it's something Gwyn still feels like she needs. Maybe even the possibility of discussing it will help aleve her need to.