I think I may be a little unique. As you know, my H had an A for 1 1/2 years and he is wanting to reconcile with me but I'm too angry. I hate being around him. Anyway, I'm the victim but somehow I think he is doing all the DB. He has detached, patiently waiting, taking care of himself while I'm going down the tubes. Has this ever happened? Look, I'm very angry at my H. He destroyed a very fresh, new and wonderful marriage and I cannot understand why he did it and I'm not sure I can live with it, whate I do find interesting, that he's detaching and I'm now wanting him back. But why? Is it because I'm insecure? Do I need to GAL? Any advise?
