Just from curiousity, has he shared those answers with you? Do you agree with them? Would you like to share them here (if you already have just let me know and I'll look it up)?
Am I wrong for asking him to seek counsel?
Not wrong. Is this a deal breaker for you? If he doesn't go to C, you're out? If so, stick to your guns. If not, figure out what your "have to have"s are, then your "want to have"s and your "nice to have"s.
In the end, you can't make him go. You can only figure out what your reaction to his decision will be.
Are you feeling any better? Any calmer? Putting the R aside for a moment, what do you need for yourself right now?
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